Losing Our Religion
What Fiddler on the Roof is for most American Jews — an emotional bull’s-eye on any family’s saga that began in a shtetl and wound up in the United States — The Lehman Trilogy is for me. My family, like the Lehmans, came here from Germany in the early nineteenth century. Both families left the old country as Lehmanns; we lost an “h” at the dock in New Orleans in 1836, they lost an “n” at the dock in New York in 1844. In both cases, the family saga began with a young single man from a small town — Rimpar, Bavaria in their case, Essenheim, Hesse-Darmstadt in ours — coming to America alone, starting out as a backpack peddler in the slaveholding antebellum South, and establishing a dry goods store. Theirs was in Montgomery, Alabama; ours was in Donaldsonville, Louisiana, and still exists there in altered form as Lemann’s Farm Supply, where I hope you’ll buy your next tractor.
Distinctive German-Jewish culture, which is now as completely vanished as Lehman Brothers, had a triumphant and controversial reign for a century or so in the United States, between the mid-nineteenth and mid-twentieth centuries. German Jews, often with the same oddly specific Southern-peddler American beginnings, started many of the leading Wall Street financial firms. They developed and ran grand, and now disappearing, department stores — Macy’s, Gimbel’s, Neiman Marcus, and so on. They were book, magazine, and newspaper publishers — Viking, Knopf, Farrar Straus, The New York Times, The Washington Post, and The New Yorker all have a German-Jewish origin story. The German Jews built palatial houses of worship, such as Temple Emanu-El on Fifth Avenue in New York. They married within their tribe. They lived in distinct neighborhoods. They practiced their own religion, American Reform Judaism. They maintained business networks. It was a small world. My own family, back in the late nineteenth century, had multiple connections to the Lehmans, who maintained a branch of Lehman Brothers in New Orleans. They occasionally took out loans there; the local partner’s daughter was married to one of my relatives; another relative married a Lehman descendant.
And then the German Jews disappeared — in Germany for obvious reasons, in America for less obvious ones. We know what happened there. What happened here?
The reason that Stefano Massini did not choose to write a play called The Seligman Trilogy or The Guggenheim Trilogy is that it was Lehman Brothers that collapsed in the fall of 2008 — and this was, if not the cause of, at least the narrative hook for the immensely consequential financial crisis that followed. Even though Lehman Brothers hadn’t been run by the Lehman family for the forty years preceding the crisis, in The Lehman Trilogy, which ran for a few weeks on Broadway last fall, the family’s American saga is meant to function as a crisis origin story. From the moment Henry Lehman first steps onto American soil, the audience knows that things are headed inexorably in the direction of disaster. Massini, a Catholic from Milan, has said that his philo-Semitic father arranged for him to have a Jewish education, in addition to a Christian one, as a child; before The Lehman Trilogy, he directed a production of The Diary of Anne Frank and wrote a play called The End of Shavuot, which is about the friendship between Franz Kafka and the Yiddish theater star Yitzhak Lowy. He has a certain expertise in Jewish subjects, though of a kind that evinces book learning rather than lived experience. The Lehman Trilogy has been produced in Europe, England, and the United States in various versions at various lengths (up to five hours!) since 2013. There is also a seven-hundred-page hardcover version of the play, rendered in free verse, called The Lehman Trilogy: A Novel, which ends with a characteristically earnest and at the same time clueless ten-page “Glossary of Hebrew and Yiddish Words” in alphabetical order (Schmaltz, Schmuck, Schnorrer, Shabbat….). I saw the first New York production of The Lehman Trilogy at the Park Avenue Armory in 2019, but here I will be quoting from The Lehman Trilogy: A Novel.
If you are in a mood to count your blessings, one of them might be how relatively rarely the financial crisis was blamed, at least publicly, on the Jews. Conversely, Massini’s project of telling the Lehman family’s story in a way that is deeply imbued with all forms of Jewishness and that also presages the financial crisis amounts to wandering into a danger zone. The playfulness and the imagination of Massini’s dramaturgy, and the skill of the acting, direction, and staging, have commanded so much admiring attention that Massini’s regular forays into certain ancient tropes have gone unnoticed. He repeatedly compares various Lehmans and other Jews to menacing animals (cobras, pythons, mastiffs, jaguars). He gives the Lehmans credit for inventing a wide array of financial techniques that have existed for many centuries and are not distinctively Jewish: promissory notes, factoring, installment buying, stocks, bonds, trading floors, and even the most basic one, lending money at interest. They are shown to be responsible for just about everything that happened in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries — including, by supplying money to pay for armaments, all the major wars. Cotton, sugar, oil, tobacco, liquor, railroads, radio, aviation, movies, television, computers — they all came to us thanks to the Lehmans. All of this goes in the direction of a topic that historically has made us uncomfortable, which is our domination of the world. Massini goes there repeatedly, as in:
Each morning
Sigmund Lehman
walks smiling
into the gray and white building
from which Lehman controls America.or
The truth is that now
Bobbie Lehman
has the world and the bank
in the palm of his hand.or
Lehman Brothers
will dominate the earth.
Massini’s attitude toward money is more New Testament than Old Testament: there is something peculiar, something unclean, about it, or at least about handling it as one’s vocation. The Lehmans and other Jews fetishize money and money-adjacent materials — several times Massini shows the Goldmans of Goldman Sachs being eponymously obsessed with gold. They can hardly restrain themselves from inventing new ways to manipulate it to gain more power — ways that usually disadvantage those whose work is more prosaic and morally straightforward. Throughout Massini’s account it is hard to figure out what Lehman Brothers actually does — is it a commodities broker, a bank, a broker-dealer that issues securities, or what? — because all the varieties of things that one can do with money are indistinguishable in their impurity, and engaging in each one in succession further pollutes the family.
That Massini has accumulated a good deal of information about Jewish religious practices enables him to get himself off the hook you’d expect him to be on, though in a way that can seem wacky if you are actually, actively Jewish. (A Lehman dies and his body, in an ornate open coffin, is put on public display in the lobby of the Lehman Brothers building on Wall Street — really? Has anybody ever been to an open-casket Jewish funeral?) He presents Jewish observance and Jewish money-lust as opposing forces. The Lehman Trilogy is framed around the contrast between the Lehmans’ decreasing religious Jewishness over time and their increasing financialization. They abandon God for Mammon. Back in Alabama, when Henry Lehman dies,
They observe all the rules, they have decided
Shiva and sheloshim
As they did over there in Germany
All the rules as though we were in Rimpar, Bavaria.
Not to go out for a week.
Not to prepare food: to ask neighbors for it, receive it and that is all.
They’ve torn a garment, as prescribed
(Sheloshim is the ritual marking of the thirtieth day of mourning.)
But by the 1940s, when a Lehman dies,
The world has moved on.
Nor have they
let their beards grow
the famous mourning beard
of Shiva and sheloshim
the uncut beard, as was the custom over there in
Germany….
According to ritual they shouldn’t go out for a week.
No chance!
And then the play ends with Lehman Brothers dead, and all the generations of the family, including the long-gone founders of the firm, gathering one last time to mourn. But now, finally unyoked from finance,
They will grow their beards
in the coming days
as the ritual requires
Shiva and sheloshim.
They will respect the Law
as it is prescribed
in every duty.
And morning and evening
they will recite the Qaddish
As it used to be done over there in Germany
in Rimpar, Bavaria.
There is something deeply un-Jewish about the idea that the purpose of religious practice is to de-orient you from money, and also about the idea that Jews have a special need for such de-orientation because otherwise the inexorable undertow of their Jewishness would tug them especially strongly in the wrong direction. Massini has one of the Lehmans, early in the family journey away from observance, devise a special secular Talmud with a hundred and twenty mitzvot, or commandments, each of which is about money. (“85. Everyone is for sale, Sigmund: at least sell yourself dearly.”) Another Lehman, later and even further down the wrong road, re-enacts the binding of Isaac by forcing his artistically inclined son “on the sacrificial altar” to go to work for Lehman Brothers — but in this case, unlike in the Biblical version,
There is no angel hurtling down
at the crucial moment to stop the killing of a son…so the child, Robert Lehman, goes on to run Lehman
Brothers for decades.
At “The Great Temple of New York” — Temple Emanu-El, obviously — the purpose of the secularizing Lehmans’ participation is to make so much money that they can be reassigned by steps from the twenty-first pew to the first. And the Temple — run, in The Lehman Trilogy, by a “Council of Elders” — is happy to govern itself by this standard. You would not know from the play that the dominant figure in American finance during this period was J.P. Morgan, a lifelong devout Episcopalian. Was Morgan’s career and his religion a contradiction that needed to be explained?
Today, if you tracked down the surviving Lehmans, you would likely find that only a small minority are still synagogue-attending Jews, and that many would be either completely non-religious, or Christian. The same would be true for most German Jews with similar family histories, including my own family. Here’s a thought experiment meant to undercut Massini’s central supposition: Would you guess that the Lehmans who are no longer Jewish are much richer than the ones who are still Jewish, because they have been freed from Judaism’s restrictions on finance capitalism? Of course not. That is because in fact German Jews have been finance capitalists for more than fifteen hundred years, since they first arrived in Germany in the early Middle Ages. Owing to a combination of culturally rooted skills and strict legal barriers to most occupations, Jews usually made their living as small-scale traders, merchants, peddlers, and moneylenders. Henry Lehman, Massini reminds us, was the son of a cattle dealer — and not a poor one; the Lehman house in Rimpar, which still stands, is large and solid. My family came from a part of Germany that went back and forth between German and French control, and my forebears are listed in census records as handelsman or marchant des bestieux. The German Jews who came to America in the early nineteenth century were doing what they had always done, but (in the case of the Lehmans, at least) on an ever-grander scale. The logic of The Lehman Trilogy, its spiritual plot, is that with the advent of each succeeding phase in its business, the family loses another little portion of its soul. But if your very first venture in America is doing business with enslavers on cotton plantations, it is hard to get purchase for the idea of a rising curve of moral unacceptability.
Could there have been another reason, besides the corrupting effects of their business practices, that the German Jews lost their religion? There was another reason, of course. And it could serve as the basis for a different saga, and one just as grandly tragic as The Lehman Trilogy.
Back in Germany, most of the early Jewish immigrants to the United States had not belonged to the small, sophisticated vanguard in Berlin or Hamburg who had begun the project of trying to join the mainstream of German life — those people were placing their bets on their long-term future in Germany. German-Jewish immigrants in the early nineteenth century were typically what we would understand as Orthodox (and they would have understood as simply Jewish). They lived on Judenstrassen in their villages, were educated in cheder, kept kosher, wore yarmulkes or hats, and were officially governed by Jewish legal authorities, whose jurisdiction in many spheres of law was recognized by the state. They were members of a separate tribe, not Germans. This was the way most Jews in Europe had always lived, and if they had wanted to live another way they could not have done so. One reason most German Jews lived in villages was that many German cities expelled all Jews at sunset and locked heavy iron gates behind them. Simply by emigrating, then, these Jews were making a consequential religious decision. At the end of Fiddler on the Roof, Tevye’s whole village heads to America in unison; Henry Lehman came to America alone. As a bachelor peddler in the rural South, you couldn’t assemble a minyan, and so you couldn’t pray. You couldn’t keep kosher. You couldn’t celebrate holidays.
Take a moment to think about the immensity of the experience of coming to America in this way, and of the conflict it set in motion, which is a supercharged version of the standard dilemma of assimilation. From the moment a Jew landed on the dock in the United States, he was a citizen, something that for most Jews in the vast temporal and geographical expanse of the diaspora had been out of the question. (And also, from the moment a Jew arrived in the South, he was white.) All those endless centuries of expulsions, forced conversions, restrictions, conscriptions, special levies, disputations, the awareness of which was lodged deep within every Jewish soul — gone in an instant. But along with them, the structures, the glories, the enveloping comforts of Jewish life in the diaspora, just as venerable, were gone too. What to do?
It did not take long until enough German Jews had arrived in the United States for it to be possible to launch congregations, within-the-faith courtship and marriage practices, and other adapted versions of traditional Jewish life. Through the nineteenth century, German Jews in America were in close contact with friends and relatives in Germany, so they were aware of the progress of Haskalah, the Jewish enlightenment movement. For the first time, at least some Jews in Germany were able to get secular education up to the university level, to join professions, and to live in non-Jewish neighborhoods, and to participate influentially in the intellectual life of Germany; this process of apparent enfranchisement culminated in the full emancipation of German Jews in 1871. It is unbearably poignant to contemplate the optimism of the Haskalah today. In its time it provoked intense religious contention among Jews, and pogroms and other anti-Semitic reactions among non-Jews.
Still, Reform Judaism, in both Germany and the United States, was well underway decades before Chaim (soon to become Henry) Lehman left Rimpar. The first Reform Temple was founded in Hamburg in 1810. Jews in Charleston, South Carolina, established the first American Reform congregation in 1824. Temple Emanu-El, Massini’s “Great Temple of New York,” was established in 1845. While the Lehmans were still (in Massini’s account) observant greenhorns, Temple Emanu-El had already gotten rid of a great many traditional Jewish practices. It had abolished the wearing of head coverings and prayer shawls, it had established family pews (not as a money-making device, but to replace separate seating for men and women), it had stopped reading the full weekly Torah portion with the participation of the congregation. Massini has Herbert Lehman, the future Governor and Senator from New York, being bar mitzvah’ed at the Great Temple in the early 1890s, but Temple Emanuel had replaced bar mitzvahs with Christian-style confirmations back in 1868.
Reform Judaism in its original form is the religion that everybody (at least everybody else who is Jewish) loves to hate. It comes across as a pathetic attempt to emulate the High-Church Protestant denominations. Some congregations switched the Sabbath from Saturday to Sunday; many, including Temple Sinai in New Orleans when I was growing up, had organs and choirs, and rabbis who presided bareheaded, wearing ornate robes, over services conducted entirely in English. At the notorious first graduation banquet for rabbis put on by Hebrew Union College in Cincinnati in 1883, shrimp was on the menu. Some of these changes were aimed at removing the myriad daily inconveniences that went along with being a Jew who lived and worked in a non-Jewish world, but at their heart was something far more momentous (and entirely missing in The Lehman Trilogy): a complete abandonment of Jewish particularism and an embrace of universalism.
The most obvious manifestation of this was a renunciation and rejection of Zionism. The first American Reform conference, in Philadelphia in 1869, took this stance, and so did the Reform Jews’ equivalent of the revelation at Sinai, the Pittsburgh Platform of 1885. One of its precepts was: “We consider ourselves no longer a nation, but a religious community, and therefore expect neither a return to Palestine, nor a sacrificial worship under the sons of Aaron, nor the restoration of any of the laws concerning the Jewish state.” In the early twentieth century, Temple Emanu-El fired its rabbi for advocating Zionism and a return to traditional religious practices.
What the Dreyfus affair was for Western European Jews, what the Kishinev pogrom was for Eastern European Jews, the humiliation of Joseph Seligman was for the German Jews in America. In 1877, Seligman, the German-born banker who had come here as a teenage immigrant in the late 1830s and started out operating dry goods stores in Alabama, arrived at the Grand Union Hotel in Saratoga, New York for his customary stay and was told that there was a new policy: no Jews allowed. This directly undercut the German Jews’ core convictions, which were the basis of the new form of Judaism that they were creating: that they were at the edge of being fully accepted as members of the American elite; that there was no consequential difference, in the mind of either group, between Jews and non-Jews; that universalism was becoming a social reality. But the Grand Union Hotel’s policy soon became almost universal in all the non-Jewish venues to which the German Jews aspired: other fancy hotels, private clubs, “restricted” neighborhoods, universities, prestigious employers. You can find the published versions of the emotions that went along with these policies in the anti-Semitic passages of such writers as Henry Adams and Edith Wharton — and whatever they were writing, what other members of their class were saying privately was surely much worse, a kind of deep, instinctive, almost physical revulsion that is certainly a familiar element in Jewish history but was not supposed to be part of American culture, especially among highly cultivated people whom we German Jews admired.
One could choose to understand these setbacks — which had a high psychological impact but a negligible material one — as evidence of the eternal, and eternally unacceptable, presence of anti-Semitism, always deserving open, ardent challenge. But many German Jews chose not to understand them this way, which was the traditional way. Instead these setbacks seemed like painful trouble for us caused by other Jews — specifically, by the arrival en masse of Jews who had come to America, to Ellis Island, from somewhere east of the Elbe, who were poor, who lived in slums, who were left-wing, who were proudly and visibly religious and tribal. German Jews longed for a return to the Edenic period before the embarrassing Eastern European Jews had arrived, but that was unattainable, except partially by means of various immigration restriction and relocation schemes.
Alternatively, we could attempt to persuade non-Jewish elites to understand us in the way that we understood ourselves: not as the brethren of the Eastern European Jewish immigrants, but as an entirely separate group, whose members shared many of the majority’s prejudices. You can see how exquisitely complicated, delicate, painful, and shameful this project was — it was far more stressful, actually, than negotiating any imagined conflict between banking practices and religious practices would have been. It entailed identifying various supposedly Jewish “traits,” as defined by anti-Semites, and then endeavoring to extirpate them from one’s behavior, even from one’s thoughts. And yet social acceptance kept receding, like the mirage of an oasis in the desert. (Remember that even when the United States was at war with Adolf Hitler, many fancy hotels still would not accept Jews as guests.) The political choices that our stance presented got worse and worse as the situation in Germany deteriorated. And the connection to our tradition grew ever fainter, to the point of vanishing.
If you are an Eastern European-descended American Jew, you surely grew up on horror stories about the snobbish, standoffish, solidarity-averse yekkes (that is, us). Of many possible examples of our bad behavior, here is an especially excruciating one: Julius Rosenwald, the German Jew who as head of Sears Roebuck was the equivalent a hundred years ago of Jeff Bezos today, named his firstborn child after Gotthold Lessing, the first leading German intellectual to be ardently philo-Semitic, which made him an emblem of the German Jews’ dreamed-of future. In 1943, Lessing Rosenwald, having previously opposed American entry into the Second World War, became the president and chief funder of the American Council of Judaism, an organization of German Jews dedicated to preventing the creation of the State of Israel. By that time much of the Reform movement has softened its anti-Zionism, for obvious historical reasons, but the ACJ kept plugging for decades after its founding mission had ended in defeat. It occasionally addressed the plight of non-Jewish residents of Palestine, but it never hid its main concern: that public and “aggressive” Jewish nationalism represented a threat to the hard-earned and fragile position of German Jews in the United States. As late as the early 1940s, many German Jews had a hard time believing that Germany, the seat of civilization, could be capable of mass murder on an unimaginable scale; and even after it became impossible to deny, it remained impossible to discuss. Sometime in the mid-1960s, my teacher at Temple Sinai’s Sunday school in New Orleans (who, like most Jewish educators, was more observant than her students) showed our class Night and Fog, Alan Resnais’ pioneering documentary about the Holocaust, and found that everybody in the class professed to have been unaware that the Holocaust had happened.
Just as one can ask which of the many succeeding steps in the Lehman family’s financial progression was, by Stefano Massini’s lights, the fateful one that severed the link to the Jewish tradition, one can interrogate the actual, rather than the imagined, story of the German Jews in the same way. Once you have decided not to live inside an entirely Jewish world, there is an endless series of individual steps one can take to make life in the mainstream go more smoothly. Should you wear a kippah to work? Should you eschew non-kosher restaurants? Should you regard intermarriage as an example of commitment to inclusiveness and lack of ethnic prejudice? Should you drop the connection between the Hebrew language and Jewish prayer? Almost all American Jews have to ask themselves questions like these, which are never completely resolvable — but the German Jews answered them in ways that wound up making it impossible to participate in the tradition. The history of the Reform movement in recent decades has been one of step-by-step rejection of the commandments of the Pittsburgh Platform. Even Temple Emanu-El now asks that you lock in a date for your daughter’s bat mitzvah when she is in third grade, and proffers guidance to mourners on how to sit shiva properly. This is surely not because its members are no longer busy making money. It is because a religion can only get watered down so much, until it stops being able to provide meaning for people. The recent history of Reform Judaism in America — its increasing hospitality to elements of the tradition, its acceptance of communal solidarity, the shift in its primary attention from people who don’t love us to people who do — can be understood as a response to the recognition of how much had been surrendered and lost.I live on the Upper West Side of New York, which must be one of the friendliest environments for Jews in the history of the diaspora. I am not aware of any institution here that formally excludes Jews, though they still exist in New Orleans. Secular institutions know not to schedule anything on Yom Kippur and sometimes even Rosh Hashanah. (Even so, on major Jewish holidays we pray under armed guard, and my children have occasionally been subjected to anti-Semitic taunts in school.) Being Jewish here is an easy identity, with so many possible variations, including being proudly ethnic but completely secular, that it is not at all obvious which part of it is the most crucial. Where exactly, at what point in their reforms and revisions, did the German Jews lose the thread? Almost everybody subtracts something from Jewish practice. Many congregations constantly make micro-adjustments, especially during a pandemic: for reasons of public safety or for ideological reasons, do we really need the repetition of the Amidah? (I exclude the ultra-Orthodox and Hasidic worlds, where one can even find additions.) Which subtraction, then, is the fatal one?
The wrong way to think about this is from the outside in — that is, in terms of what would make Jewishness more acceptable, less strange, to non-Jews, or of what might remove all the conflicts inherent in the project of being a Jew who functions also as a citizen in a non-Jewish state. I live in two professional cultures that are, for the most part, militantly secular (though disproportionately Jewish): academia and journalism. In these, the standard critique of religion is that it is based on a denial of science and that it acts as a seedbed for hate and extremism. You cannot re-engineer Judaism, or any religion, in a way that would effectively remove every element that might reinforce these stereotypes, just as you cannot remove every cultural practice that might read as “Jewish” to people who do not like Jews. There would be nothing left. Nor is external enmity worthy of being dignified with internal self-erasure. Instead, the project should proceed from the inside out: what, from a Jewish point of view, is essential? And that question cannot be answered without straying outside the tight boundaries that the requirement of appearing innocuous to mainstream sensibilities necessarily imposes.
For thirty-five years I have belonged to one or another Conservative Jewish congregation, which I suppose makes me an intramural convert. Of the myriad differences between the religious services I attend now and the ones I occasionally experienced growing up, the one I would put at the top of the list is the role of the Torah. Tobias Brinkmann, author of Sundays at Sinai, a book about the Chicago equivalent of Temple Emanu-El during the high-water mark of Reform Judaism, reports that the title character of his book, a house of worship named for the site of the giving of the Torah to the Jews, decided that it had no need of a Torah scroll on-site and put it into storage. That was extreme even for High-Church Reform congregations in their heyday, but most of them made gestures in the direction of decoupling Judaism from the Torah.
Customarily, as just about all Jews who attend services will know, the Saturday morning service nears its climax with an elaborate veneration of the Torah as a physical object: we stand as doors of an ark are opened to reveal it, then it is paraded around the room so that we can touch and kiss it, then it is unwrapped and laid out on a platform and the weekly portion is read aloud directly from the parchment scroll, which is hand-lettered in a stylized calligraphic form of Hebrew that is difficult to read. Members of the congregation take turns going up to the stage to participate in this ritual. I still do not understand why, encountering all this for the first time deep into my thirties, I found myself overcome with emotion, as if a dam had burst — or why, seeing an awkwardly dressed-up little boy whom I had never met, staggering under the weight of the Torah scroll, recite the Shema, the most essential Jewish prayer, in a breaking voice, at his bar mitzvah, I would burst into tears.
Just about everybody at such a service will have read the weekly portion many times before; still, after it is read aloud, someone offers a sermon or homily with a distinctive interpretation. The idea is that the Torah is a document of such richness and profundity that on every reading a new nugget of meaning can be found — and of course the entirety of the endlessly long and strange Talmud derives from the contemplation of linguistic and conceptual mysteries presented by the Torah. All fundamental Jewish rituals and holidays are rooted in the Torah. Confronted with the Torah’s most dull, baffling, or offensive passages — the apparent endorsements of slavery and murder, the condemnation of homosexuality, the precise instructions about the decoration of sacred spaces — one is supposed to look so deeply that something admirable and usable in the here and now can be discerned, rather than dismissing it as outdated, offensive, and best ignored. A Jewish version of the legal principle of stare decisis applies: you cannot just focus on the good parts of the Torah and drop the bad parts. The entire document demands the respect, the sense of its continuing vitality, that being required to argue with it based on what it says and what has been said about it entails — which is different from either blind obedience or the refusal to engage with anything that seems problematic. Non-Jews often perceive Judaism as being grounded in an elaborate, rather lifeless series of rules, as opposed to more Christian concepts such as “faith,” “belief,” and “grace.” That cold legalistic caricature of Judaism has a long history, and it appears in The Lehman Trilogy. But it misses the essential point: the rules are best understood as evidence of the veneration of the Torah.
I am not prepared to say that I believe God gave the Torah to Moses at Mount Sinai. But it is not just another book, either. It is not even just another enduring work of literature, or an especially significant historical document. The combination of the text itself, and the distinctively Jewish way of interacting with the text, seems to address every possible aspect of life, from the mundane (whatever’s going on for you, good or bad, this week) to the empyrean (love, justice, history). And although the Torah is open to many interpretations and over time has shaped the consciousness of many people who are not Jewish, it is hard not to read it as a Jewish story. God creates a covenant with a particular tribe, lays down a strict and definite set of conditions for membership, and offers terrible punishments and great rewards (including the gift of land for a nation) that are linked to people’s degree of violation or compliance. These apply individually, but also collectively, to the Jewish people. The Torah is not a deracinated, universalist text. Being Jewish entails a degree of particularism, which in turn requires a degree of solidarity and self-advocacy — and also a constant, never fully resolved struggle, if you live in a non-Jewish environment in the diaspora, to find the right balance between the requirements of the two worlds that you inhabit.
The fundamental mistake of the German Jews — if you regard our loss of religion as a tragedy, as The Lehman Trilogy evidently does — was in believing that we could scrub all the particularism out of being Jewish and still have something left. A determined campaign to make Judaism more like Unitarianism winds up not with a strengthened, modernized variety of Judaism, but with… actual Unitarianism, which became the religious destination of many German Jews. The German Jews’ version of universalism was a response to being in a tiny minority, from the moment of arrival in America, and so not having access to a thick Jewish culture. There is also an Eastern European Jewish version of universalism, at least in my neighborhood, which entails projecting one’s much-loved Jewish culture and values onto the rest of the world and assuming that they fit perfectly: Abraham Joshua Heschel and Martin Luther King, Jr. were practically the same person! And that often leads to bitter disappointment when it becomes clear that non-Jews and Jews do not actually share an identical consciousness. Why should they? You usually cannot persuade other people that you are like them, and you also cannot persuade other people that they are like you. Making one’s peace with Jewish distinctiveness is actually helpful in coming to terms with the distinctiveness of non-Jews.
One can see the German Jews as a footnote in Jewish history, but I would argue that our story is far more resonant. Today there is no longer an enveloping Jewish neighborhood culture in the United States, unless you are Orthodox or even more traditionalist. Synagogues are not growing. We are all German Jews now. We all engage in balancing acts in which we may lose our balance and renounce too much or accept too little. Questions of what being Jewish means as a state of being and a set of activities, of whether it is plausible to imagine the disappearance of anti-Semitism, of how Jewishness can coexist with Americanness, of the nature of one’s obligation to the community — these are about as fundamental as anything life has to offer. Every American Jew who is self-aware has to wrestle with them. And they are a lot deeper and more interesting than any supposed contradiction between religion and money. If that contradiction exists at all, it is very far down on the list of what God gave us to struggle with as we try to make what we can of being human.