Notes on Assimilation
There is a passage in Democracy in America in which Tocqueville observes that in a mass of land spanning the width of the continent and extending from “the edge of the tropics” in the south to the “regions of ice” in the north, “the men scattered over this area do not constitute, as in Europe, shoots of the same stock.” On the contrary, “they reveal, from the first viewing, three naturally distinct, I might almost say hostile, races.” It was not simply the seeming incompatibility of the customs, origins, habits, memories, and laws — to say nothing of class positions — that separated the whites, blacks and Native Americans from one another: “even their external features had raised an almost insurmountable barrier between them.”
This blunt observation prompts one of the book’s more striking asides, in which Tocqueville recounts pausing during his travels at the log cabin of a pioneer in Alabama, on the edge of Creek territory. Beside a spring he encounters a microcosm of American society in the nineteenth century: an Indian woman holding the hand of one whom he assumes to be the pioneer’s young daughter, followed by a black woman. The visual descriptions contain within them the two-pronged tragedy of the American experiment: “The Indian woman’s dress had a sort of wild luxury” that preserved and advertised what we would now call her totalizing alterity; “the Negro woman was dressed in tattered European clothes,” a simulacrum of the people who would never consent to accept her. Both women lavish attention on the five- or six-year-old white “Creole” girl, who already “displayed, in the slightest of her movements, a sense of superiority.” The Indian woman, in Tocqueville’s words, remained “free,” “proud,” and “almost fierce”; the black woman was “equally divided between an almost motherly tenderness and a slavish fear.” In both cases, the Native and the African, Tocqueville sees a cursed choice — the fundamental inability to overcome “the thousand different signs of white supremacy” firmly in place in the new world. Indeed, “nature’s efforts” to draw the oppressed and the oppressors close here only “made even more striking the wide gap between them.”
There can be no serious discussion of American reality without the sober — and I would argue, dispassionate — acknowledgment of the historical fact of European dominance, which nearly obliterated the seemingly “unassimilable” Native and for centuries diminished the African to a state of wretchedness and isolation verging on inhumanity. Whereas the European — however lowly or removed from Anglo-Saxon Protestant norms — came by choice to this new land, retaining her ties to the old countries that shaped her, the Native and the African were left with nowhere else to go, not even in the realm of imagination or conjecture. For both, the link between emancipation and assimilation is inexorable. There might be many ways of belonging, but there was no possibility of not belonging in any way. Oppressed or free, they were here. Even their exclusion by white society did not release them from finding a way to live in and with America. Their misery was an American misery, as their happiness would be, if ever it were achieved. The question of how to make a genuine home has always been a question of how to blend into a society that was based on your subjection even if — and in fact, precisely because — you coincided with or predated its foundation. Yet there is nowhere else for you to be.
The psychological reality of this dynamic presented itself fully formed in Tocqueville’s time and has remained alarmingly present through our own. Waves of “non-white” immigrants — from southern and eastern Europe, from Latin America, from Asia, and even sometimes from the Caribbean and the African continent, too — were able successfully to integrate into the national mainstream to the precise degree that they could distance themselves from the enslaved and otherwise unfree and their descendants already living here, whose social condition, often but not always, manifested itself in those conspicuous physical characteristics set in opposition to whiteness. One thing that united a multitude of disparate groups over the years was a diligence about separating themselves from black Americans. Without being glib about the depredations that other ethnicities endured, the question of assimilation in America — of the continuous liberation and integration of a plurality of distinct peoples into a reasonably harmonious mongrel whole — has always been a question that turns on the status and fate of the people deemed “black,” the hardest case, the ultimate case, who have always been living here and on whose exclusion various other forms of belonging have been based. This is an old tension that remains highly pertinent today. (Consider the extent to which, in just the past year, we have witnessed extremely contentious discussions of the degree to which Latinos and Asians can even be welcomed under the umbrella term “POC.”)
The challenge of finding a place in America was both eased and complicated by those millions of immigrants, whose presence necessarily rendered the question less black and white. If America did not begin as a nation of immigrants but rather as “a white Anglo-Protestant settler society,” as Samuel P. Huntington maintained (though the Puritans were also immigrants), it certainly became one, a multiethnic society of many origins. By the twentieth century the idea of assimilation was championed widely, if not by the nativists and the bigots then certainly by the striving members of various new and marginal groups themselves. These men and women weighed their own prospects for belonging and flourishing in a country that was being transformed by transplants, from a Europe ravaged by famine and war and persecution, and from the former Confederacy as well, whose recently emancipated population found itself searching north and west for the liberty and the prosperity that was denied them in the South.
The founding text of the assimilationist ideal was The Melting Pot, a mawkish play by a British Jewish writer named Israel Zangwill, which appeared in 1908 and popularized the phrase that is its title (which, not for nothing, would be considered a microaggression today). It told the story of a young Moldovan man who comes to America in the wake of a Russian pogrom that decimated his family. Here he marries the daughter of his family’s oppressor (literally) and composes a symphony that is an ode to a future in which distinctive ethnicities macerate into something bold and new. President Theodore Roosevelt attended the premiere of the play in Washington, D.C.
The premise of Zangwill’s play was in its titular metaphor: ethnic and religious differences needed to be overcome and annulled, so that a homogeneous social substance remained. Difference was an obstacle to social peace, and the obstacle could be removed by assimilation, which denoted a large or total erasure of prior identities. Assimilation was a particularly ruthless form of integration, because it implied an embarrassment about origins; assimilation was re-invention. “After the prohibition of large-scale immigration in 1924,” Huntington noted in 2004 in Who We Are, his controversial book on immigration and the American character, “attitudes toward America’s immigrant heritage began to change.” By World War II, “ethnicity virtually disappeared as a defining component of national identity.” The preponderance of assimilation literature — books with titles such as How the Irish Became White, How Jews Became White Folks, and Whiteness of a Different Color: European Immigrants and the Alchemy of Race — presented such an optimistic vision of the rise of European immigrants, who had been considered in the nineteenth century not just ethnically but racially distinct from “whites.” This literature ignored Asians and did not know what to make of “Hindus” or Arabs. It was mostly silent about the plight of those deemed black, whose existential predicament was dealt with most powerfully in the literature of “passing,” such as Nella Larsen’s fine novella of the same name and James Weldon Johnson’s subversive faux-memoir The Autobiography of an Ex-Colored Man. Yet, as those texts make clear, passing made acceptance a reward for deception. The only way in was to lie, to compromise one’s dignity. This was a curse.
Full assimilation for American blacks, until quite recently, was predicated on the plausibility of self-negation. Immigrants, again, were also expected to conceal or to distort their differentiating heritages, but they were rewarded for this more quickly and easily. Anti-black racism has a special force in the panoply of American prejudices. The civil rights achievements of the 1960s were victories of the legal code, but there is more to society than law: informal and much more rigid rules of habit and custom continued to frustrate full integration for masses of black people (and to varying degrees people of Native American, Latino, and Asian descent), except for upwardly mobile and fortunate individuals who have somehow been able to traverse these inherently porous and frequently contradictory barriers. The ascent of those individuals was an important fact about what was possible in America, but it proved less than its celebrants thought it did. These exceptions were not “Uncle Toms,” but they were also certainly not the harbingers of racism’s end. With the election of Barack Obama to the presidency in 2008, it did seem, however fleetingly, as though the country had finally reconciled itself to a genuinely pluralistic future in which, at last, blacks had been fully incorporated into the multi-hued national family. But the swift backlash and visceral dissatisfaction — first from the right and then from the left — made it clear that the story of assimilation is very much still being written.
What is race? Or, perhaps more to the point, what is racial difference? These are related questions whose answers cannot be simply taken for granted, and must continuously be spelled out in plain, jargonless language. It is obvious that human beings differ physically from each other, in both superficial and significant ways. Groups of related individuals do tend to broadly share physical traits that distinguish them from other groups. “When these physical differences involve skin color, eye shape, hair, and facial features, people have for centuries labeled them differences in race,” Huntington explains. “The physical differences exist; the identification of them as racial differences is a product of human perception and decision, and attributing significance to these racial differences is a result of human judgment.” What is decisive is not what we see, but how we evaluate what we see. Or, more fundamentally, that we look carefully. Albert Murray put it most succinctly: “Any fool can see that white people are not really white, and that black people are not black.”
The story of racial progress has been the story of seeking to render surface-level and socially constructed differences less and less potent — to dilute the self-reinforcing logic of what Barbara and Karen Fields have called “racecraft,” and have shown in their monumental book of the same name to be the illusion of race produced by the practices of racism. (In their formulation, racism — the ideological justification for a preceding economic exploitation — creates race, and not the other way around.) We choose to organize our polity along crude color categories even though, in point of fact, and even in the time of Tocqueville — as the presence of that Creole girl attests — we have always been a heterogeneous population. The average black American derives fully 20 percent of her DNA from Europe, and almost entirely from that continent’s Anglo-Saxon precincts.
Outside of the great modern black writers — Wright, Ellison, Murray, Baldwin — the fact of our biologically assimilated reality has often been given short shrift in the mainstream conversation. (It is not only that “blacks” contain ample amounts of Europe within them; today millions of “white” Americans possess enough Africa in their DNA to have been enslaved under the laws of hypodescent.) It makes many people uncomfortable to discover that we — as a society and as individuals — already are mixed. The discussion of identity, the sentiment of identity, leads very quickly to a need for purity and a desire for exclusiveness. But it is much too late for purity and exclusiveness: we really do contain multitudes.
The first time I read Norman Podhoretz’s “My Negro Problem — and Ours” — an infamous and almost unbearably candid essay whose title I am powerless to glance at without cringing — a flash of recognition overtook me almost against my will. I am the titular Negro, that is a fact, though I don’t think he has described me fully. He feared me but he did not know me. Yet what vexed him in the ’60s, and what still vexes us, is not even race, it is the myth and superstition of color grafted onto social circumstance and class. That is why my all-American experience, in which encounters with racism and the disadvantages of color did not block the uses of my talents or the free expression of my views, has also made of me the authorial “white” liberal whose discomfort cascades into guilt. I reject that guilt just as I resent the tribal and despairing essentialism that describes my trajectory as “white.” What I want to be, in the fullness of my heritage, is the disembodied writer seeking, however implausibly, an exit from this whole dishonest bind. “Will this madness in which we are all caught never find a resting-place? Is there never to be an end to it?” Podhoretz raised an important if completely impolitic point: all of us will need to let go of who we were in order to become who we are capable of being.
The question needs to be continually posed: what exactly is being preserved under the guise and the performance of our inherited racial identities — and at what near- and long-term price? This cuts both ways. What do blacks and other marginalized peoples — groups, it is true, that have always been in flux — cling to by asserting continued difference (regardless of what others would assert on their behalf)? Perhaps more importantly, what do majority and normative populations — which is to say, whites — believe they are maintaining through our exclusion, and what has been that cost?
Passing narratives have always carried more than a whiff of shame about them. In recent years, depictions of immigrant and non-white communities in America have increasingly been judged based on the degree to which they allow a given group’s distinctiveness to obtain. We hail Junot Diaz for refusing to translate whole blocks of Dominican Spanish just as we praise Jay Z for, in middle age, suddenly deciding to dreadlock his hair. (We don’t know what, exactly, to make of a multicultural cohort of congressional leaders kneeling after the death of George Floyd on the Capitol’s polished marble floors in vivid kente cloth stoles.) The word of the day is unapologetic. This is no doubt an improvement over meek or diminished. It harks back to the earlier slogan of “black pride.” And who can argue against pride? There is, after all, so much for us to be proud of, as the “assimilationist” themselves certainly believe. But what happens when pride is diminished into mere defiance and is pointlessly glorified? It happened in the 1960s and it is happening again. (We need a new Tom Wolfe to bear witness to this era’s bizarre new radical chic.) And what happens to a human being when the part about him that he most cherishes is his defiance? Is that not a travesty, too? Defiance is not the same as self-respect — or it is self-respect turned hysterical, a tensed and defensive perversion of self-respect. A human being is infinitely more than a clenched fist.
Embedded in this discussion is the accusation that people who desire assimilation are attempting to escape from who they really are. They are said, by the proponents of separation, to suffer from a psychological disorder, a reprehensible lack of self-esteem. Self-hatred is real, of course, and the constant experience of recognition withheld can inculcate it. But there are at least as many reasons for being ashamed of oneself as there are men and women populating the earth — many of which have nothing to do with racial identity at all. And what if that is a false objection in the first place? What if you do not have to erase anything in order to join? This is what Nathan Glazer and Daniel Patrick Moynihan discovered in the early 1960s: that Zangwill wrote for another age, that melting down was no longer necessary to establish a position and a commonality in American society. Indeed, what if we find ourselves in a society that accepts us — that frequently admires us — for not erasing anything, that celebrates our particular and original attributes?
The zero-sum negotiation between authenticity and acceptance deserves to end. Based on a misunderstanding of American pluralism, it has caused too much pain. It is entirely possible to remain aware of histories of exclusion and domination without conceding the motive for wanting to assimilate going forward. What we need is a new discourse, and beyond that, an infinitely more secure means of imagining ourselves and each other, one that abhors unambiguous and intimidating notions of loyalty and disloyalty, and allows for a kind of national project that does not reject one’s inherited culture but which, on the contrary, understands it as but one arrow in a shared quiver — a single source of strength among many. The most effective way to combat racism is precisely in the name of pluralism.
What we need is an unpejorative understanding of assimilation that views it simply as a means of experiencing the capaciousness of the world. Assimilation is a welcoming impulse, an expression of nothing more sinister than curiosity. One wishes to assimilate because one wishes during this fleeting life to maximize one’s human potential. But the contemporary hyper-focus on racial difference, and above all on the singular, nefarious power of whiteness, frowns on curiosity and prohibits us from forging the inclusive societies — and the inclusive individuals — that we must ultimately will into existence. While it is true that we may have been an Anglo-Protestant culture at the founding — and I am as right to say “we” as you are — we are far beyond the point of no return: we are now, or very soon will be, a minority-majority country. Such changes to the country’s hardware require a software update — one that incorporates all of these all-Amer-ican differences. This in turn requires the confidence to state a basic truth: the things that one wants to acquire by assimilating or integrating into the mainstream — or, ideally, by forming a new and holistic core culture — are not things that white people own.
The essence of Homer or Plato is not whiteness. When a black man reads the Iliad and the Republic, he does not steal them from anybody, or trespass into a territory where he does not belong. Baldwin was liberated by the knowledge that Shakespeare also belonged to him. I relish the thought that Kafka and Borges and Dostoyevsky are mine. Yet we are moving, at warp speed, away from such generosity of spirit — away from an appreciation of the blessings of universalism, and of the extent to which they need not threaten the particular. At New York’s elite Fieldston School, to cite but one depressing recent example, even physics has become an identity-based power struggle. “We don’t call them Newton’s laws anymore,” an upperclassman confided to a journalist. “We call them the three fundamental laws of physics. They say we need to ‘decenter whiteness.’”
Such a capitulation to racecraft rigs the discussion from the start. Assimilation — or genuine personal cultivation and interpersonal toleration — is a matter of addition, not subtraction. It hungers for more. Newton’s genius was not white, it was human. (And it may have been only his own. Think of all the white people who were not Newton.) When we acquire the ability to see the physical world as he did, we transcend a provincial identity, ours and his, an obsession with provenance, to commune with what is objectively true. We are, every one of us, lifted up. Anyone — black or white or brown — who would assert that the notion of Newtonian physics “privileges whiteness” is only betraying the thinness of their own self-understanding.
Behind all of these debates, however high-minded, there always lurks the dire question of sex. Who sleeps with who? Who marries who? Whose physical features, superficial as they may be, will wax and whose will wane? These are primal and delicate questions that do not usually inspire rational analysis. And, beyond that horizon, to whose gods or idols will we continue to bow our heads, if we still bow them at all? In France, where I live, a proudly “universal” culture has been reckoning with the pressures of particularism — specifically, with how much latitude it can afford to extend to a young Muslim population that has grown more desirous of the veil the more it has been commanded to stash it away. Here, too, the question of assimilation — of how to make the de facto reality of a multiethnic society work in theory — has begun to rage again. Where America had its melting pot, Paris-centric France could point to le creuset français, which transformed both paupers from the provinces and immigrants from the colonies into raceless Frenchmen equal within the Republican ideal. Assimilationism was the public philosophy, and not much attention was paid to the matter of how much in the way of cultural and ethnic and religious self-immolation the state could legitimately demand.
As early as the 1970s and 1980s, the assimilationist tradition faced a “differentialist” reaction. A popular slogan at the time was the droit à la différence. As in America today, such fervent identitarian sentiment in France gained ground on the right as well as on the left. The philosopher Pierre-André Taguieff has written extensively about the multiculturalist “new right” that emerged around the reclusive and prolific thinker Alain de Benoist, whose ideas have recently migrated to America and inspired the likes of Richard Spencer and other organizers of the disgraceful march on Charlottesville. What was genuinely novel in the French formulation, however, was the xenophilic, counterintuitively antiracist and even egalitarian turn of Benoist and some (but not all) members of the nouvelle droite. Cultural and racial differences were taken as paramount and practically sacrosanct, as the reactionaries sought to preserve abstract collective identities — and communal differences — that they perceived as threatened by mixing of any kind. The political rise of Jean-Marie Le Pen shifted the terms of debate. “As a result,” the American sociologist Rogers Brubaker notes, “the moral and political ambiguity, and the exclusionary potential, of culturalist differentialism were brought into sharp focus — indeed, much sharper focus in France than elsewhere.” In the wake of an active political right, the slogans had to change. Universalism had to be reaffirmed, politically and polemically. There was less talk in the mainstream about the “right to difference” and more about the right to resemblance, or better yet indifference, which is to say the right to be treated like everyone else. (Philosophers since the Enlightenment have noted that indifference is a form of toleration.) It seemed that French society was intensely focusing again on the assimilationist goal. That is why the recent spread of identity politics in France has come as such a shock — seemingly another damaging import from overseas. Les Americains! It is certainly true that French political culture does not yet possess a natural and homegrown understanding of pluralism.
In the United States, the situation is different. We are losing any natural understanding of universalism. At least since the second Obama term, when the Black Lives Matter movement took off in earnest, there has been, on the consensus-shaping left, a pronounced rejection of assimilation as a fundamentally anti-black ideal. “Assimilationist ideas are racist ideas,” Ibram X. Kendi has ruled in his Manichean book How to Be an Antiracist. “Assimilationists can position any racial group as the superior standard that another racial group should be measuring themselves against, the benchmark they should be trying to reach. Assimilationists typically position White people as the superior standard.” This is a sorry misunderstanding of the reasons for assimilation. (Who wants to be white?) It is also the hackneyed accusation of race treason.
In a slim book that has been anointed, in multiple didactic iterations, the definitive tool for everyone from toddlers to CEOs, Kendi builds on the success of recent “afropessimistic” discourse, and on the fashionable adulation of (early) Malcolm X over Martin Luther King, Jr., and traces the failure to emphasize cultural specificity and the maintenance of origins back to W.E.B. Du Bois. “The duel within Black consciousness seems to usually be between antiracist and assimilationist ideas,” he instructs. “DuBois believed in both the antiracist concept of racial relativity, of every racial group looking at itself with its own eyes, and the assimilationist concept of racial standards, of ‘looking at one’s self through the eyes’ of another racial group — in his case, White people. In other words, he wanted to liberate Black people from racism but he also wanted to change them, to save them from their ‘relic of barbarism.’ Du Bois argued in 1903 that racism and ‘the low social level of the mass of the race’ were both ‘responsible’ for the ‘Negro’s degradation.’” Kendi continues by citing the master without commentary, wagering that the cultural mood has shifted enough for the offense in DuBois’ words to be obvious to his readers: “Do Americans ever stop to reflect that there are in this land a million men of Negro blood…who, judged by any standard, have reached the full measure of the best type of modern European culture?” (Du Bois was marveling about a population still living with the memory of slavery.) Kendi expects you to recoil from those words. When I read them, I cheer.
Kendi’s solution to the enduring reality of inequality in the absence of any assimilationist objective — which has become its own orthodoxy now — is no solution at all. The point is not only that perfect separation is impossible, and would hobble the black community. It is also that Kendi is committing the very sin he has made a career of bemoaning: race-based separatism. Insisting on the perpetual and unalloyed distinctiveness of blacks (or any other historically marginalized group) is as exclusionary as ignoring us had ever been. We are stuck, then. As he argues depressingly elsewhere in the book, “The only remedy to racist discrimination is antiracist discrimination. The only remedy to past discrimination is present discrimination. The only remedy to present discrimination is future discrimination.” Orwell would have loved those sentences. Kendi’s vision of American society is a perpetual juggling trick in which the balls may never come down.
Cultural relativism is bad for culture, because it looks suspiciously on outside influences. It is tribalism through and through. Like all tribalism, it is easily threatened by others and it threatens others easily. What the proponents of this limiting worldview fail to grasp about assimilation is that, even when it is desired and achieved, it can only ever be partial. Human beings do not and cannot replace each other. When they undergo changes, and accept influences, there are continuities and discontinuities. The differentialists — whether white or black, left or right — have less to fear than they imagine.
The differentialists loathe a genuinely multicultural society because they are terrified of a genuinely multicultural individual. They lay claim to the entirety of their sons and daughters, every aspect and every dimension of them. They want them to be completely faithful and completely monolithic. They fear that the world is nothing but a slippery slope to defection and betrayal. That is why they subsume the individual, with all her wants and needs, with all her decisions and acts, with all her capacity to self-create, beneath the collective. The individual, except as a loyal representative of her origins, is effaced and forgotten. Individualism itself is regarded as a corrupting deviation from community, which is finally all that matters.
Why are they so afraid? Perhaps they have not transmitted enough of their tradition to sustain their children within it, so that they may carry it into the “outside world” with confidence. Perhaps, ironically, it is their tradition, and its capacity to meet the modern world, in which they have insufficient faith. Either concern is overplayed. Inherited identity, in all its elements, is never completely alienable. There is no such thing as perfect assimilation, nor should there be. We are all amalgamations, whether we choose to recognize and to cultivate this inner diversity or to stifle it. The notion of hybrid vigor is useful here. Arguing for segregation — whether physical, mental, ethical (one set of standards for you and yours, and another for me and mine) or cultural — is arguing for weakness, or admitting to it. To equate assimilation with racism is to shame and intimidate us out of our birthright — as much a birthright as any authenticity could be. The world and my father’s house: they are both mine.
If we can intuit why people overemphasize their historical glories, we might also pause to ask what makes them so anxious about loosening or even severing the bonds of past adversity. Why can’t they take yes for an answer? (When it is given, that is. There is still far too much no.) In any case, it is clear that an obsessive focus backward — whether indignant or prideful — hinders the necessary forward motion. It is impossible to transcend racism by doubling down on racial differences. The problem with the anti-assimilationist program of the contemporary left is not that it rejects a diminishing movement by non-whites to an Anglo “core culture” from which everything else is a deviation from the norm, as in Tocqueville’s day. The problem — which is mirrored and even amplified in the regressive populism of a myopic Republican right — is that it fails to meet the imaginative task at hand. To make our future society not just function but flourish, we will all have to assimilate into something outside ourselves, something based on all of us that is entirely new.